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Kids: Where Pagan Kids Go!
RSVPs: How and Why
Meet the Folks Making Magick Happen
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CUUPS   Kids 'N Kin:

where Pagan kids go  
when  they can't get into 
Hogwarts!

Magickal folks of all kinds meet  EVERY Sunday at 1 pm for two hours of ritual, singing, dancing, arts and crafts, stories, and a snack. Along the way, we learn about Paganism and how to follow the Rainbow Path.

This expansion of our program was made a
t the request of participating families, we have expanded our program to meet EVERY SUNDAY except in August since Sept. 14, 2003  Weekly programs have been a tremendous success, as the children are developing friendships, ritual skills, and exploring the world together. Parents have found comrades in the struggle, and built friendships of their own through this program.

The Kids
program has proven sustainable on a donation basis, so that no one will be turned away for lack of funds. Our costs are typically $2-3 per child per session. 

Our meeting place is normally downstairs at First Unitarian Society (right next to the elevator).

Street parking is normally plentiful after noon.

The Kids'N Kin news is at CUUPS TC Kids n Kin Page You can learn more about what Kids is all about by checking out our home page. 

Services provided by
CUUPS Kids

for more information, see CUUPS Kids Homepage 

Pagan "Sunday School" -- Kids  

Child-appropriate Seasonal Rituals
Some of the 8 Great Festivals are better suited for the interests, abilities, and attention spans of children than others.  Our adult Samhain, with its intensity and solemnity and long meditation, is generally suited only for teens or very mature middle school youth. But every festival can be adapted to focus on children's needs, abilities, and interests, and so we are offering a Sunday afternoon ritual for all our young folk.

Opportunities to serve as an Acolyte in ritual
are open for youths and maidens interested in participating in the ritual team which produces our evening festivals. Adolescents have had roles in the last several rituals. Readiness for such a role is not just a matter of age, and roles can be created to meet the abilities of the youth. Speaking and non-speaking roles are available.

We are especially interested in youth who would like to learn simple folk dances for rituals. Acolytes should attend rehearsal, but need not attend other ritual team meetings, unless they'd like to. To talk about being an acolyte, please call Christa at 763-493-3634.

Maidens and Mothers:  
We have a plan in place to hold a weekend or a 4 session group for Girls over 10 and their Mothers (or Woman Sponsor with parental permission).  Together, we'll share issues around becoming a woman, memories and hopes, Pagan traditions about initiation into womanhood, and encountering the Feminine dimension of the Holy. Most of all, we'll celebrate our Girls as they are becoming women!

This program will be taught by Rev. Christa Landon, who will draw on her training for leading the Cakes for the Queen of Heaven Curriculum as well as her graduate coursework in comparative religions, Jungian psychology, and spiritual direction. 

If this may interest you, please add your name to the list.  When we have 5 pairs of girls and women, those who are on this list can suggest best dates and location (at homes or First Unitarian Society).  (Should men be interested in an initiatory program for their sons, such a program could be arranged, given more time to plan a program and find a suitable facilitator. If you are interested, contact Rev. Landon
.

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Child Care During "Adult" Rituals
It's important than only those who WANT to attend rituals do so, and yet, finding and paying for babysitting can be prohibitive for many families.  The committee arranges on-site child care in child-friendly rooms on the same floor. Parents contribute $3/child or more as they can afford it; the shortage is made up from CUUPS' general fund.  This service is only possible with R.S.V.P. 5 days in advance.

Pagan Teen Group: 
Are you a high school student? Want to meet other Pagan Teens in a safe context? 
Did you know that CUUPS Twin Cities is gathering a circle just for you? Check out the 
Pagan Youth 13-20 page. Contact the Webmaster and ask to subscribe to the new Young Pagans listserv. And don't forget to check out the Chapter News section of this ezine for more ways to get involved.

Intergenerational Camping Weekends
CUUPS Camp began last Lammas is open to members and friends of CUUPS-TwinCities and their families.  If YOU would like to participate in any of the three 2004 camps , please ">register your interest; early registrants have input in selecting dates, sites, food, and activities. 

You DON'T have to have your own equipment, and camperships are available.

Kids programs are extra safe because parents are working together in our programs, but there ARE some people on the Internet who want to exploit kids and teens.  Please discuss these with your family.

Kids' Rules for Online Safety


(from www.safekids.com)

Rules one through six are  adapted from the brochure Child Safety on the Information Highway by Lawrence J. Magid. Printed copies are available free by calling 800-843-5678.

1. I will not give out personal information such as my address, telephone number, parents' work address/telephone number, or the name and location of my school without my parents' permission

2. I will tell my parents right away if I come across any information that makes me feel uncomfortable.

3. I will never agree to get together with someone I "meet" online without first checking with my parents. If my parents agree to the meeting, I will be sure that it is in a public place and bring my mother or father along.

4. I will never send a person my picture or anything else without first checking with my parents.

5. I will not respond to any messages that are mean or in any way make me feel uncomfortable. It is not my fault if I get a message like that. If I do, I will tell my parents right away so that they can contact the service provider.

6. I will talk with my parents so that we can set up rules for going online. We will decide upon the time of day that I can be online, the length of time I can be online, and appropriate areas for me to visit. I will not access other areas or break these rules without their permission

7. I will not give out my Internet password to anyone (even my best friends) other than my parents

8. I will be a good online citizen and not do anything that hurts other people or is against the law.

Meet the Folks
Who Are Making the  Magick Happen!

            


             

Christa:

Back in the late '70's/early 80's, I was doing program planning for some of the first regional Pagan festivals.  I made a point of talking to the kids to see what more we could do for them.  They kept bursting into tears, saying they LIVED for these festivals, because it was the only time when they could meet with other Pagan kids their own age.  That haunted me. I came to realize that until Pagan parents could collaborate to create on-going communities of dozens of families, our kids were going to suffer terribly from isolation.

When Tom and I learned we couldn't have children of our own, we dedicated ourselves to helping the Pagan movement evolve to be a better place for Pagan children, by taking some risks which Pagans with kids in the early 80's generally could not. This lead me to getting a masters degree in comparative religions and a doctorate in ministry.  Part of my coursework included curriculum review and design.  I worked with 5 UU congregations' children's programs in varying capacities, and wrote and tested an intergenerational curriculum.  I began the CUUPS Kids experiment in 2002. 

Now that J. and M. are doing such a fine job with Kids, I'm turning my attentions to creating a youth program for teens.  We'll be starting that in January, 2005.



What's your favorite Magickal Book? 

Tell us about it and you can be published in Pagan Institute Report! 

You'll find other book reviews at kids_bibliography.

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page!


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  Last updated January 3, 2005